When you are purposefully not dating, you acquire an overwhelming sense of clarity about the dating that happens around you. It’s sooo interesting! Because I try to get up and read a scripture as opposed to get up and text a guy I’m dating my vision or judgment is not as cloudy as some people around me. As you can see, judgment is something I’m not fully cured of and still need to work on but I’m grateful for the opportunity to see things clearly around here! Where some people can see nothing but lust-induced fog, I can clearly see the bright yellow dead end signs (yes, plural) that others can’t (and don’t want to) see.

Thanking God for clarity!