I’m all about being purposeful. Being intentional. And being transparent. Unfortunately, a lot of that has been lost in present day “dating” as we know it. Sometimes, I wonder if people even know why they are dating. Or if they’ve ever even asked themselves the question. So to help you clarify whether or not you should be dating in the first place, just answer this question:

If you are not dating with the intent to evaluate the other person in order to be married, then why are you dating?

If you are not dating with the intent evaluate whether to be married, then why are you dating?

If you are not dating to be married, then why are you dating?

If you are not dating ready to be married, then WHY ARE YOU DATING?

Please, someone answer this question. And you wonder why the other person needs you define the relationship after “dating” for 6 months. Chile. I ain’t got time.

But we will discuss this more at a later date. Right now, we just need to take it all the way back to the basics.

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Who’s back in the saddle for Awesomely Luvvie’s #31WriteNow Challenge?? Yep, that would be me. Let’s go!

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