Obedience doesn’t have to be hard. Obedience is only hard if you look at it as a list of things you “can’t” do. But God tells us our obedience is a display of our love for Him. Not a demonstration of how well we can follow rules. And especially not a demonstration of us figuring out how close we can get to breaking the rule without actually breaking it (hello, somebody). What if we looked at obedience as God does. As love. What if we looked at it not as a list of “I Can’ts” but a list of “I can’s.”

I can’t have sex because I’m not married. I love God so much that I can totally remain pure and honor Him with my body (I mean it’s His body anyway, right?). Or how about, I can totally appreciate the security that purity brings (no STDs, no babies, no emotional attachments, no $800 daycare bills I have to pay on my own, no child support, etc.).

I can’t drink. I can definitely have a good time and enjoy myself without needing liquor. I mean, who needs liquor to have a good time??

I can’t listen to rap music (because we only listen for the beats these days…). I can totally protect what comes into my spirit, soul, and body. And for those of you who keep talking about, it’s the beat- let me introduce you to Lecrae, Trip Lee, Andy Mineo, etc.

I can’t take credit for the things that are happening in my life. I can give God all the glory for this amazing life He has given me. I can lead others to Him. I can continue to be a vessel (the buck does NOT stop with me!)

I can’t stay at home on Sundays and just hang out, have brunch, or just watch church online. I can show God how much I love Him by visiting Him in His house with His followers and get His message on Sundays. I mean, after all, he comes to my house every other day of the week- I’d love to pay him a visit!

I can’t go around cursing. Ok say this with me slowly. Out loud if you must: I can form complete sentences and make my point as emphatically as I choose without needing to use words that offend, hurt, or would elicit a beat down if I heard my 5 year old child saying them. I can use words that lift up God though! Ex: What in the Eden is going on here?!

Does that work? When you love someone should it feel like a chore? Should it feel restrictive? Absolutely not. It should feel liberating. It should overwhelming. In a good way. It should feel like you would do absolutely anything to make that other person happy.  Why in the world would we treat God any differently? If you can’t love God it’s gonna be difficult for you to love an imperfect person (including yourself).

Speak on it! What else can we do?